How beautiful it is to offend a person. Clever curses. How to humiliate a person with a word: examples of phrases and patterns of behavior Send three letters culturally

01.02.2012 15:43

The ability to protect yourself with beautiful excuses.
Have you ever had cases when you were cruelly teased and at this moment you feel very uncomfortable in your soul, you start to feel embarrassed, blush and want to hide away from everyone. The fact who is teasing you, boyfriend, girlfriend, friend, enemy, child or mother-in-law (mother-in-law) also always plays a role. And of course I wanted to know a worthy answer to all the jokes !!! If this is your beloved, then it may be nice to play the role of a defenseless girl and please him by being embarrassed by his jokes, and if suddenly this is your rival or neighbor with whom you are fighting ... ??? Then, of course, you need to answer with dignity and be able to stand up for yourself!
For example you were interrupted: excuse me for what I say then when you interrupt.
If they joke out of place, say: such a sharp joke! That I almost cut myself!
If a the interlocutor is not interesting and repeatedly teased you: do not pay attention, I usually always yawn when I'm not interested!
Well standard: Don't tell me, and I won't tell you where to go.
And this, for example, when in the bazaar an evil aunt shouts where the youth are heading:
but we are the same age, we just take care of ourselves in different ways.
For a pesky boyfriend: Leave in English, because I will send in Russian.
Sitting and waiting for a friend so you can turn off an undesirable person:
- Girl, would you let me sit with you for a while?
- A little will not work, next to me they turn gray all over their heads and at once!
Banal excuse with a threat: For some jokes, there are gaps in the teeth.
Like this: Are you asking if I love sex ??? Of course I owe him my life!
About appearance: Listen, I look at you and all my complexes disappear!
If you are suddenly told:
No need to be nervous, nerve cells are not restored! Then you can answer like this: - I would be silent! teeth too!)))
Astrology)) : I guess what is your horoscope stone ... judging by the face it is a brick ...
If you ask yourself, but you don't want to apply physical strength: I could offend you, but unfortunately it won't be better than nature.
From a malevolent smile: Just don’t smile at me, I’m afraid of horses since childhood.
You can warn like this: dear young lady, are you just so brave or is it insured?
Excuse for mom or grandma: and what's wrong, that the wind is in my head, for that my thoughts are always fresh.
If you are told that you are angry and bitchy: it is better to be a tigress for him for a year than to be a sheep all his life!
If a girl refuses to drink:. - girl, what are you going to drink?
- I do not drink!
- Come on, you WILL DRY !!!)))
Facts: Nothing is more annoying than if the person you interrupted continues to talk!
For uncivilized boys: Call me CHICKEN one more time !! I'll lay your balls for you.
If a stranger asks a lot: dear one should not be too persistently interested in my life. It will seem so interesting to you that you will be disappointed in yours.
Facts))) : It is easier for men, they immediately see what kind of breasts we have. But we, poor women, are in for a surprise!
Facts: . Female logic of course is! It's just that men are so stupid that for some reason they cannot understand her)))
For talkative gossips: If a person can't keep his mouth shut, then he doesn't really need teeth !!!
For a picky husband: Sweet! There have never been people like you, there are no now and there is no need at all ..
In an unpleasant society: I feel so smart next to you.
: .
- You're so cool when you drink!
- And you are very cool when I drink!
About jokes: Usually, the last laugh is the one who did not immediately get into the topic!
Rough but will help:
- Such a girl is beautiful and smokes?
- Is such a man scary and talking?

They say a woman should have 5 men: the first husband to whom you can show everything and not tell anything, the second friend to whom you can tell everything but not show anything, the third lover to whom you can show a little and tell a little, the fourth gynecologist who can show everything and tell everything and the boss who says so will be !)))

Actually, they say the truth that. But it is also true that, having wished for evil, it will return to you! So why not wish everyone well, even in those moments when it is especially difficult to do it !!! Try it, and I am sure that the good will come back to you! Be kinder, nicer and then you will never have to look for tricky excuses for people !!! Love people, the world that surrounds you, and radiate more goodness! Good luck to you!

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Now you can beautifully, and most importantly, subtly pin your opponent in an argument using one of these expressions.
Only aristocrats and people with a fair sense of humor and imagination can insult so beautifully.
So,

How beautiful it is to offend the interlocutor.

Any similarity between you and the person is purely coincidental!

1. Are you always that stupid, or is today a special occasion?
2. As an outsider, what do you think of the human race?


3. I'd like to kick you in the teeth, but why should I improve your appearance?
4. There is at least one positive thing in your body. It's not as scary as your face!
5. The brain is not everything. And in your case, he is nothing!
6. Careful, don't let your brain get into your head!
7. I like you. They say I have a disgusting taste, but I love you.
8. Have your parents ever asked you to run away from home?
9. If I had a face like yours. I would sue my parents!
10. Don't be upset. A lot of people don't have talent either!
11. Do not be offended, but do you have a job to spread ignorance?
12. Keep talking, someday you will still be able to say something clever!
13. Do you still love nature despite what she has done to you?
14. I don’t think so, maybe you have a sprain!
15. Fellows like you do not grow on trees, they hesitate there.
16. He has a mechanical mind. This is bad for him, he often forgets to turn his back to the wind.
17. His mind is like a steel trap that always slams when trying to find the answer!
18. You are a man of the earth, it’s bad that you’re not the best part of it.
19. He wondered - this is something new.
20. When it finally gets dark, you will surely look your best!
21. You're just a wonder comedian. If it's funny, it's a miracle!
22. In Who's Who, you should be looked for as What is It?
23. You are living proof that a person can live without brains!
24. It is so short that when it rains, he is always the last to know.
25. You're just a template for building an idiot.
26. Why are you here? I thought the zoo was closing for the night!
27. How did you get here? Did someone leave the cage open?
28. Don't try to find anything in your head, it's empty.
29. I think you wouldn't want to feel the way you look!
30. Hey! I am human! What do you?
31. I can't talk to you right now, tell me where will you be in 10 years?
32. I don't want you to turn the other cheek, it's just ugly.
33. I don't know who you are, but it would be better if you weren't there, I'm sure everyone will agree with me.
34. I don't know what makes you stupid, but it does work.
35. I can kick the monkey out of you, but it will be very expensive for you!
36. I can’t remember your name and please don’t help me with this!
37. I don't even like the people you are trying to copy.
38. I know you were born stupid, but why are you having a relapse?
39. I know you made yourself. It's good that you admit your guilt!
40. I know you are not as stupid as you look. This is impossible!
41. I saw people like you, but then I had to pay for the ticket!
42. Why are you such a fool today? Although I think this is typical for you.

But just do not overdo it, even using veiled non-direct insults you can get in the face))
By using these insults, you take responsibility for your words.

To morally humiliate a person, it is not enough just to find a few phrases on the Internet, memorize them and use them. It is necessary that they sound confident, that they are in place and that the person feels really crushed after them. To do this, you need to speak calmly.

Imagine that you, in response to offensive words, almost crying, shout to a person: "You're imbecile!" It seems that you said that he was stupid and did it without a mat - but it will look more pathetic than spectacular. But if, in response to attacks, you answer absolutely calmly, without raising your voice: "How tired I am of your attempts to pretend to be an intelligent person." - this will most likely not be the reaction that your opponent expected to receive and he will be knocked out of the rut.

In this case, it is impossible:

• Laugh at your own mockery - it spoils the whole impression. The listeners themselves should understand that you said something offensive and funny - and laugh themselves.
• Shout... If you raise your voice, this is weakness, it shows that you have been really hurt and prevents the interlocutor from clearly distinguishing your words. Plus, if you're fuming, you may not remember that you wanted to sound smart and beautiful.
• Cry... Tears are even more obvious than screaming to show that you are truly unpleasant. Therefore, if you feel that you are close to tears, better catch your breath, count to yourself to ten and only then make your move in a quarrel.

If it seems to you that you will never be able to act calmly and contemptuously, practice in front of the mirror. Practice a mocking expression, an ironic smile, a sympathetic shake of your head. Find a gesture that perfectly represents your opinion of the person - you can, for example:

• tilt your head to your shoulder as if you doubt that you heard the person correctly, it's so stupid what he just said;
• raise an eyebrow in surprise - as if you are hearing such stupidity for the first time;
• if you wear glasses, move them to the edge of your nose and look over, as if you want to get a better look at the interlocutor and make sure that he is sitting in front of you.

Any non-verbal expression of contempt demeans a person. You can often humiliate beautifully without saying a single word. For example, ignore - and pay attention to a person only after a few unsuccessful attempts to reach you. At the same time, you can make a surprised look and say:

• “I'm sorry, I didn't hear you”;
• “I'm sorry, did you say something?”;
• "And I thought it was somewhere near the radio playing, and this is you".

The main thing is to look sincere and even friendly in the process, so that the person feels like an empty place, which is even difficult to notice.

What should I say?

But ignoring a person is an art that needs to be honed and trained for a long time so that it looks truly impressive and so as not to break down in the process. For most of us, humiliating a person with words is much easier. The main thing is to choose them correctly.

Truth and sore spots

“It's easy and pleasant to tell the truth,” said one book character, and he was right. But how rarely do we do this in everyday life! We will never tell a fat person that he is fat, and an ugly person that he is ugly. Politeness has been taught to us since childhood, and that's why the truth can be so painful. If you hit it in a weak point, it will definitely humiliate and confuse the person.

You should take a closer look and find out what the interlocutor is experiencing the most. This could be:

• Appearance... Many people suffer from this and it is easiest to humiliate a person without a mate in this area. Maybe he has one ear higher than the other? Maybe he has a big nose? Maybe he has a pimple, although he is no longer a teenager, or does he have thin thin hair? Maybe if it's a woman, she looks older than her age? For every flaw, you can come up with a biting phrase.
  — "Have you ever tried to take off on them?" - a person with big ears.
  — "Yes, you can hang yourself on such a nose!" - big-nosed.
  — "Madam, you are so well preserved for your forty." - a thirty-year-old woman.
• Low intelligence... Truly stupid people rarely feel that way, but everyone else can doubt the level of their intelligence and suffer from it.
  - "Are you so stupid from birth, or did you take lessons?"
  - "When everyone stood in line for the mind, you probably slept and missed everything."
  - “How much is 6 by 8? Are you sure? So I thought. "
• Low earnings... If a person earns little, this is most likely his weak point. But you need to look closely - if a person earns little because of his own ideology, it will not work to hurt him in this field. But the rest can be teased.
  - "Let's go to the cinema? Oh, you have no money again. "
  - "Poverty is not a vice, as they say, but I could not live like this."
  "You wouldn't even have money for matches."
• Low cultural level... If a person is not educated, he can be ridiculed with special taste.
  - "Who is this playing on the radio, Bach or Mozart?"
  - "You seem to have stepped off the paintings of Picasso."
  - "Did Dostoevsky write about you?"
  Most likely, the person will not even understand the ridicule, but more educated listeners will be able to laugh.

For men, a separate point, often a weak point is potency. In a dispute with an opponent, you can humiliate a person by saying that he is so angry because he is not able to satisfy a woman in bed. Or say something like "If in bed you were such a lion as here, the girls would follow you in herds."

For women, physical attractiveness is often the weak point. You can hint to her that she looks old, fat, or has small breasts - and if you do it gently and sympathetically, it will be doubly humiliating.

The main thing is the ability to observe, draw conclusions and hit exactly the weak point that hurts a person.

Demonstration of your superiority

People do not like to be shown that they are worse than others. Therefore, a very effective means of humiliation will be to show that you are doing better at something.

• You can use more expensive things, you can mention that you were on vacation or in an interesting place - but in such a way that it does not look like bragging, but something completely natural for you.
• You can wear expensive clothes.
• You can even offer an unpleasant person to participate in an event for which he obviously does not have enough money, and enjoy his reaction.

Reminders and revelations

If you have a good memory, you can perfectly put others in their place by reminding them of the stupid or embarrassing things they did, as well as the stupid things they said and the puddles they sat in.

You can even make them fools in front of mutual acquaintances, divulging some secret and sincerely surprised at the negative reaction - "Oh, well, I thought we were all our own, what are you ashamed of?".

The main thing is to justify yourself with the best intentions, so that in the eyes of others you do not turn into a bore who reminds a good person of his mistakes.

How to besiege a person

How to close the mouth of a person you know is not difficult to come up with. But what if you see your opponent for the first time and do not know anything about his weaknesses?
In this case, humiliating phrases will come to the rescue.

How to humiliate a man who meets on the street?

Beautiful girls often suffer from monotonous attempts to get to know each other - many men simply do not understand that they do not want to hear and see them. Therefore, you can use biting phrases:

• To you or to me? I suggest: you go to your place, I go to yourself, and everyone is happy!
• No, I don’t want to meet you. I will be bored with you, but you will not understand with me.
• You're just a wonderful comedian! If you joke funny - already a miracle.
• I admire you! With such a face, I would spend my whole life under the covers, and you’re nothing, even trying to get to know each other on the street ...
• Try dating in the dark. No fool will give you a phone in the light.

The main thing is to have an expression of bored superiority on your face. Or you can completely ignore the attempt to meet - answer "yes", "of course" and give the phone number of the nearest morgue.

How to humiliate a mistress or homeless woman

Most women are in awe of their appearance - and how decent they look in the eyes of society. Therefore, you can use phrases:

• You must have been beautiful. Men are twenty years ago.
• There are injustices - and there is no mind, and there is nothing to compensate.
• God created all women from a rib, and you, it seems, from an ass.
• It’s a shame to offend you - the mirror hurts you every day.

The main thing in the process is to look better - and this will be additional humiliation for the opponent.

How to humiliate a subordinate who has forgotten about subordination

In a work collective, quarrels are not uncommon, and sometimes you can find a situation in which a subordinate forgets about his place and starts an argument with his superiors in a raised voice. This should not be allowed - but it should not sound unprofessional either. The following phrases can be used:

• Don't make me regret the day I recruited you.
• It seems like you've just gone without a bonus.
• You dishonor our firm and drag the whole team back.
• With workers like you, we will never be successful.
• Perhaps you should consider and continue your career somewhere else?
• It looks like the company is overpaying you - with this level of professionalism, you do not deserve this level of salary.

Arguing with a subordinate at his level is a gross mistake. One should speak forcefully and nip the dispute in the bud, under the threat of dismissal, so as not to drop one's authority.

How to humiliate your cheating partner

It is a natural impulse to hurt a person who has gone to treason, after the implementation of which you may even feel better. You can use phrases:

• No need to make excuses - don't humiliate yourself even more.
• I don't want to share either the table or the bed with you anymore - what can you find in you?
• It was so stupid to believe in your honesty that now I hate to even think about it.
• For someone so bad, you traded me surprisingly easily for a couple of nice nights.

Each of us always knows more about a partner than about everyone else - and in case of betrayal, this knowledge can be applied. What is he afraid of? What doesn't he like about himself? In what situations was he a fool? All this can be remembered and thrown in his face goodbye.

How to call a person

Just telling a person that he is a fool is childish. Using a mat is ugly and embarrassing in public. Therefore, you can use other options - said with a due degree of confidence in their rightness and coldness, they may sound great, despite some old-fashionedness:

• stupid (sheer stupid) creature - a person who is not even worthy of the title of a person in his stupidity;
• animal (you can add the adjective "dirty", "useless", "evil")- a person who has risen on the same level with unreasonable cattle;
• bastard - a low and vile person, devoid of conscience;
• shameless, shameless - a person devoid of any shame;
• bastard- a person whose qualities are more reminiscent of a slimy reptile;
• cattle - a person who is stupid and incapable of reasonable actions;
• carrion- a person who has nowhere to go lower;
• imbecile - a person whose mental development is equal to the development of the mentally retarded;
• windbag or gibberish - a person who talks in vain.

You should always apply words to the place, otherwise you will not be disgraced for long.

How to tell a person is dumb

Calling a person stupid is boring, not original and not at all offensive. Beautiful coherent phrases are much more effective:

• Are you always such a fool, or is it just me so lucky?
• Do not be upset! Cuttlefish have no brain at all, but they live.
• Carry on, my friend. According to the theory of probability, someday you should say something meaningful.
• Are you thinking about something? This is something new!
• Don't try to think, dear, otherwise you will get a headache from habit.
• I don’t know which tool you use to be such a fool, but you should patent it since it works so well.
• I know you are not such a fool as one might think from looking at your face. It just wouldn't be possible.

If a person is really stupid, he simply will not understand more complex indications of this fact. So you can take it easy and use simple, obvious phrases.

How to humiliate a person with clever words

It is always useful to remember clever and well-aimed phrases - then, in the event of an unexpected attack, you will be able to answer the offender harshly and bitingly. The psychology of the humiliated is such that he will not want to repeat this experience. The main thing is not to be ashamed and not to be afraid of offending a person.

• Do you still work there? And still the same? Well, at your age you can still plow and plow, I believe you will succeed.
• And I would like to answer you, but nature has already avenged me.
• You obviously need to add fish to your diet. It is good for the intellect.
• If you want to hurt me, you have to say something smart. I don’t think you’ll succeed, however.
• Are you kidding me? Sorry, I didn't get it right away.

The main thing in all phrases is to apply them in a timely manner, sound confident and not be afraid of rebuff. And if you don't want to get into an argument, you can just answer "yes", "of course" and "did you say something?" and by all means to show the interlocutor that he is worthless is also humiliating enough to use.

The article will teach you to respond to insults not with rudeness, but with cultural words and phrases without obscenities.

How can you beautifully humiliate a man, a guy with clever words without swearing: phrases, expressions

There are many situations in life when a person can be offended, set up, humiliated and "made fun of." You should not be silent and accept such antics as something familiar. If you do not explain to your offender how wrong he is, he can spoil the mood of the people around him for a long time and use their good.

In order not to use fists and at the same time show oneself from the good side, one should, so to speak, "kill with a word." Education is not given to everyone, because how to get it, you need strength and time. The article gives you tips to help you learn how to respond to offensive phrases with delicate but firm words, making it clear that you are above any rudeness and obscene language.

What can you say to a man and what is important to remember:

The worst thing that a man can do is to humiliate and raise his hand against a woman, and therefore he should be hit "on a sore spot", convicted of weakness, but not physical. For example, the word "impotent" can affect anyone. Try to play it with other "colors":

• "You are a moral impotent!"
• "Only impotent can offend a woman!"
• “You are impotent not in your pants, but in your soul! (Or maybe there and there!) "

Another thing that can affect any man is his status and wealth. The fame spoken to a man with low income or lack of work is gaining special strength. From time immemorial it was believed that a man is a breadwinner and therefore the inability to have wealth is a humiliation for a modern man.

IMPORTANT: It is necessary to humiliate a man with such phrases if he is really at least a little worried about the question of the family's prosperity. If he is deliberately supported by his parents or wife for a long time and this does not bother him, you are unlikely to be able to "hook" him.

• "You are the shame of the parents and their ruin!"
• "You can't even provide yourself with toilet paper!"
• "Behind your insolence you hide your own inconsistency!"

If you want to point out to a man his stupidity and recklessness, even if he has a higher education and manners, but he regularly does stupid things, you should use phrases like this:

• "You have not succeeded either as a person or as a man!"
• "Unlike mine, your dignity has fallen to the bottom!"
• "You are an immoral, weak and wretched person!"
• "All your words are helpless attempts to prove something!"
• "I'm sorry to look at you!"
• "Don't be humiliated and don't try to say something smart!"
• "I would offend you, but nature has already done it for me!"

How can you beautifully humiliate a woman, girl, husband's mistress with clever words without a mat?

In some life situations, women themselves "ask for" insults and humiliation. In order not to cross the line permitted by a cultured society and not to show oneself as an ill-mannered person, it is important to know a number of phrases that can "put in place" any ill-mannered girl.

What should be emphasized:

The first thing that can hook a woman is criticism towards her appearance. It is important to choose words that will not shout directly "You are ugly!", But will only delicately hint about it. Your words should make the woman think and make her look at herself from the other side.

• "When God created women, he decided to save money on you!"
• "I would offend you, but I just advise you to look in the mirror!"
• "Your words are the helpless barking of a dirty mongrel!"
• Surprisingly, she is not rich in intelligence and did not come out with a face! "
• "It's a pity to spit in such a face!"

Another aspect of female dignity is their popularity with men. Here it is important to emphasize the problem itself (either there are very few men, since the lady does not attract them, or there are too many and she would compare to a woman of "easy virtue").

• "Yes, there is nowhere to put a sample on you!"
• "You have already given all your dignity to other people's men!"
• "You are the shame of the father and the tears of the mother!"
• "You are a quality male bedding!"
• "Your whole life is serving sugar from the owner!"
• "Not a single normal man will even look in your direction!"
• "All your attractiveness ended 10 more men ago!"
• "Communicating with you is a shame on yourself!"

If you want to offend a woman as a person, you should point out the shortcomings of her mind, showing a fool in your own eyes and in the eyes of others:

• "If you were smart, you would have a decent man!"
• "Men don't leave smart women!"
• “Here, you look at you and at first glance it seems that you are a fool! And then you look and for sure - you are a fool! "

How to insult a woman with words without a mat?

How to offend, offend a man, a guy without a mat in clever words?

Some phrases that do not contain obscenities and rudeness should not be very long. The fact is that a person who offends you obscenely is unlikely to be able to understand literate and cultured words, as well as their meaning and delicacy with which you pronounce them. Answer with short, but maximally intelligible phrases. Give your speech confidently, firmly, and make sure to look into the eyes so that what is said is sure to be heard.

IMPORTANT: It is in your power to offend a man or a guy for the wrongs caused by just one phrase that conveys all your pain and strength. Do not react to any shout and let everything said in your honor pass through yourself, because it is your word that will be the last and decisive one.

Offensive but “cultural” insults for a man:

• "With someone like you, only a miserable mongrel will take root!"
• "You will never succeed, because you have little strength and masculinity!"
• "You are not capable of satisfying a woman either morally or in bed!"
• "You are the shame of anyone, even the most fallen woman!"
• "You are not a man, but a trinket for temporary use!"
• "Even the stupidest woman in the world cannot be happy with you!"
• "You have not yet taken place in the womb!"
• "In your 40 years, you are not given to become a man!"
• "You are so weak and you are such a loser that it doesn't even hurt me to listen to your words!"

Offensive phrases without a mat for a man

How can you offend, offend a woman, a girl with clever words without swearing?

To try not to offend a woman with obscene words and still be able to convey important information to her will help smart phrases without obscenities. Try to keep all your emotions in yourself and instill in every word not only your anger, but also the confidence that you are strong and the truth is on your side.

What phrases to say to a woman or a girl:

• "Instead of barking like a yard dog, you better go think about your words and the stupidity with which you pronounce them!"
• "Go wash yourself and wash off this idiocy!"
• "I used to think that you were smart, but now I see that you have always been a fool!"
• "You were probably the last in the queue for cleverness!"
• "Every time you open your mouth, another portion of slop flies out!"
• "You act like you grew up in a brothel!"
• "Yes, you have a brain, but there is not an ounce of mind in it!"

How to humiliate and respond to an insult to a person with words without swearing?

How to siege, put a man, a guy, a subordinate in place in clever words?

Very often, people at work have no professional ethics at all and a subordinate can "afford too much" during a conversation with his superiors. The administration, in turn, is highly educated and well-mannered people, which allowed them to take such a rank.

A person with a higher rank must be able to "verbally punish" his subordinate for a misdemeanor and make him respect himself with only cultural words. They need to be spoken confidently and strictly, avoiding emotional gestures and explosive phrases.

What can be emphasized in a conversation with a subordinate:

• For lack of education
• Ask to show a document on higher or professional education.
• Threatening job loss due to incompetence
• To say that a person runs the risk of losing respect in the eyes of his superiors and colleagues.
• Threatening with a fine or loss of a bonus

How to "put in place" a subordinate:

• "You make me regret that one day I decided to hire you."
• "In my eyes, you instantly lost your qualifications!"
• "I believe that our company is overpaying you, because your education is not worthy of such a salary."
• "It looks to me like you just spent your bonus!"
• "I will not allow ignorance to flourish in my conscientious collective!"
• "You are a disgrace to our company!"
• "With your achievements, our company will never succeed!"
• "You are pulling our team and our company down!"

How to "put in place" a subordinate with words without swearing?

How to close a person's mouth with clever words?

IMPORTANT: The concept of "closing your mouth with clever words" assumes that you will find phrases that, after an offense, can reason a person and warn him against a new mistake. "Clever words" are words devoid of obscenities and rudeness, but imbued with reasonable meaning. They push a person to conclusions and leave a mark on the soul more than any obscene word.

Phrases to "close the mouth" of a person:

• "Since you opened your mouth, the stench never stops coming from there, like from a cesspool!"
• "It would be better if you did not open your mouth, because all your words only showed how low you are!"
• "You opened your mouth and immediately realized that there was a stupid person in front of me!"
• "Your words did not show you the best side!"
• "Since you opened your mouth, I have changed my opinion of you for the worse!"
• "Your words put you down in my eyes nowhere below!"
• "You are incredibly stupid if you think that everything you said is clever speech!"

How to do and what to say to a person so that he can shut up: phrases without a mat

How to get rid of, send a guy, a man in clever words?

There are situations when a woman should rebuff a man so that he no longer pesters and has no views of her. A weak and stupid woman will swear with obscene language, while a smart one will put a person in place with just one word and a glance. The strength of a woman is in her behavior and words.

What to say to a man:

• "You are not even worthy of my gaze!"
• "I will not tolerate such humiliation to give you my attention!"
• "You are so low that I didn't even notice you at first!"
• "In my eyes you are nothing!"
• "For me, you are not even a man!"
• "I do not want to deal with such a low entity like you!"
• "Looking at you, I only feel pity!"
• "I hate boors, they are my competitors!"
• "May I send you intellectually?"
• “Do you think I can really spend time with you? Well, probably thinking is not about you! "

Clever words goodbye to the guy who betrayed

Very often men do not behave in good faith and betray women in love with them. In situations where women find out about this, many decide to leave. To make a man understand how low and wrong he was, one should choose worthy and true words that will simultaneously serve as humiliation and goodbye.

What can you say to a man:

• "Come back under the skirt you just got out of!"
• “I don’t want to share with you any more bed, no table, no life, not even air on one planet!”
• “I hate even just listening to your excuses! Such a man is simply not worthy of me! "
• "You have become so low that you began to seek happiness from a strange woman between your legs!"
• "I was so stupid that I believed in your sincerity and now I feel sick of all the years I have lived together!"
• "I hope that you will be happy and that someone else will be able to give you at least some of the care that I blindly gave you!"
• "You will regret after a while that you offended me, but then I will even forget your name."
• “How low you have fallen and the funny thing is that you don’t see it, and everyone else has already noticed!”

How can you call a person with clever words?

Choose more loyal curses to insult your abuser without using foul language. This will show you only from the best side, as a reasonable and educated person who is not spoiled and knows dignity.

What words can be chosen:

• Bauble -an unnecessary thing, empty and soulless, with no purpose, on which time is wasted, something without mind and intelligence.
• Cheap utensils -someone of low dignity, someone who is not needed and of great value in the world.
• Soulless man -a person deprived of any values \u200b\u200band inner peace.
• Shame (disgrace)a person devoid of dignity, a person who brings shame and problems to loved ones.
• Shameless -a person devoid of respect and understanding of the people around him, a person without spiritual values.
• Carrion -a person who has fallen in the eyes of others, a person who is comfortable living in the mud of words, deeds and betrayal.
• Livestock -a person who does not behave rationally, a person who is compared to an animal.
• Foolish creature -a person who does not know how to do smart deeds.
• Animal -a person who does not know how to do well and is deprived of his essence.
• Insect -a person devoid of a human being
• Mongrel -a man devoid of nobility and education

How to call a person without using a mat?

How to say in clever words that a person is stupid?

Use phrases like this:

• "You have a mind like a cat cried!"
• "The brain is no bigger than that of a chicken!"
• "The head is big, but there is no brain!"
• "You have a brain without convolutions!"
• "You have only one gyrus and that one is even!"
• "You understand me? Although yes, where are you going? "
• "And you were born so stupid or became?"
• "You were the last in line for brains"
• "Nature has not rewarded you with reason"

How to say in clever words that a person is a fool?

Use words like this:

• Fool
• The little-minded
• Crazy
• Lean mind
• Clothed
• On my own mind
• Autistic
• Clown

How to replace mats with smart words?

In order not to look stupid and overly emotional, try to develop in advance in yourself the ability to replace obscene words with cultural counterparts. It's not difficult at all if you practice beforehand. Try to realize in advance the whole meaning and meaning of the mats familiar to you, and then, in your understanding, you can replace them with more "cultured" words.

IMPORTANT: Clever words spoken "strongly" and confidently can be more painful and meaningful than any obscenities that already exist constantly in the speech of a modern person.

How can a person respond to an insult, resentment, rudeness in clever words?

Rules:

• Try to contain your emotions.
• Answer not during sports or the abuser's monologue, but only when he runs out of words.
• Speak calmly but confidently
• Your voice shouldn't be too low and too loud
• Look in the face and do not give free rein to your hands (both in terms of assault and unnecessary gestures).
• Leave proudly after what has been said

Video: "Gentleman's Insults"

The problem of annoying conversationalists is extremely common. It can be an annoying admirer, just a familiar person, an unloved colleague or a "sworn" girlfriend. Many people try to enter into a verbal duel, responding to unpleasant words with swearing or even swearing. Perhaps this was the kind of reaction the instigator was seeking.

It would be much wiser and more promising to stop picking with words and try to come out victorious from such a situation. How beautiful is it to “send” a person without using abuse, “obscene” constructions? First of all, calm down and follow our recommendations.

Psychological science is skeptical about the desire of a person to rise by insulting other people, even if they bore him. It is extremely difficult for a self-sufficient person to offend, offend or humiliate.

The situation is such that a wise person will not take offense at truthful words, and will simply not pay attention to an obvious lie.

It is not for nothing that the word "send" is put in quotation marks, since we will not use any insults, let alone a three-story mat (even as an example). Humiliation, resentment and anger are the lot of a failed person, in whose emotional background negative feelings prevail, and disharmony reigns in the soul.

Our task is to respond culturally using psychological techniques.

Every day we come across dozens or even hundreds of bright individuals, so conflict situations happen quite often. How to politely and intelligently "send" a person? Experts suggest using psychological sambo - a kind of counterattack that uses the strength (mental energy) of the opponent.

And again - not a single person is capable of offending, humiliating or offending the interlocutor if he treats himself with due respect.

They take offense at the truth (or half-truth), subconsciously trying on unpleasant words or insults. That is, we ourselves belittle our own dignity, emotionally reacting to unpleasant words.

Sometimes, when listening to an unpleasant or simply uninteresting speech of a person who is in front of you, the only question that worries you is how to “send” a person culturally?

I would like to resolve such a not very pleasant situation neatly, without humiliation, insults and swearing. Here are some simple tricks.

1. Try to change the unpleasant subject by asking leading questions about a completely different object or person. If the other person is trying to return to the stated topic of the conversation, ask the questions in a sharper tone. However, it is better to refuse aggression.
2. Laughter is a terrific "weapon" that can turn a situation in your favor. Use the full range of humor (sarcasm, banter) to reduce an unpleasant topic to a casual joke. In this way, you can end the annoying conversation and slide off the "favorite skate" of the interlocutor.
3. Try to constantly give out the same unemotional reaction - "aha", "really", etc. You can just be silent. Not finding an interesting and grateful listener in your face, the annoying interlocutor with a high degree of probability will go looking for a new "victim".

In addition, before thinking about how to send a bored person, you need to understand that not all aggressors should be responded to in the same way. So, if rudeness comes from the boss or a work colleague, it is better not to provoke a conflict at all, but to try to stop it as soon as possible. Quarreling with your boss is not a good idea at all.

How beautiful to get nasty? Psychological sambo technique

Yes, the best way to "send" a person is to ignore him. But what if the unpleasant interlocutor does not lag behind, but only gets excited? In this case, the so-called psychological self-defense, or sambo, will help, which will not only protect a person from the consequences of an emotional attack (confusion, daze, confusion), but also allow him to get nasty (in our understanding, to repulse the offender).

If you do not know how to competently send an unpleasant person without a mate, then a psychological counterattack will buy time for gaining self-control, "restoring" sarcasm and the ability to sharp answers.

So, psychological self-defense requires:

• the use of clear speech structures;
• communication using the correct intonation - for example, you need to communicate calmly, even coldly, thoughtfully or with a touch of slight sadness;
• thoroughness in the conversation, achieved by:
  • maintaining pauses before the response;
  • slowness in answering;
  • not facing the offender, but in the other direction.

Thinking about how to politely send a guy or just a familiar person, without using insults, mate, the easiest way is to turn to psychological self-defense. Let's take a closer look at his most popular techniques.

Endless refinement

The use of such a technique involves posing a question - which means that the opponent will have to think, transfer the emotional charge into a rational, rational one. In addition, you will gain a little time, which the interlocutor will spend pondering the answer.

- This dress does not suit you at all?

- What exactly do you dislike about this dress? Which one would you recommend?

Remember to pause and speak calmly, even a little distantly, before responding. It is likely that you don't even have to be rude.

External consent

This method of psychological counterattack involves agreeing with the opponent's statement. You show that you paid attention to his words, agreed with the criticism, but in fact, you simply disarmed the interlocutor. After all, he hoped that you would begin to be rude or angry.

Examples:

- You look just awful in these pants!

- Most likely, you are absolutely right.

- You're too self-confident!

- Yes, you're right, I'm cocky.

- You might not be late!

- Yes, I'll work on it.

External consent does not at all imply that you have changed your own position. However, after such "compromise" the aggressor usually retreats and even changes his attitude towards you. And you no longer need to figure out how to send an unpleasant person without swearing and swearing.

Spoiled plate

This technique is based on a curious technique - you repeat the same verbal construction in response to a rudeness or just an annoying request. It is extremely important to come up with the right phrase so that it can be repeated over and over again without disrupting the flow of the conversation.

- Only you can help me complete this report!

- But nobody wants to help me!

- Sorry, I'm extremely busy today.

- And what should I do now? I was hoping for you!

- Sorry, I'm extremely busy today.

When using this technique of psychological sambo, one should not be distracted by other topics. In addition, you need to communicate with a person in the same calm, sad tone. Irritability or sarcasm is not acceptable.

English professor

This technique is based on your unpreparedness for the act or actions that the manipulator requires of you, because this is contrary (supposedly) to your beliefs.

Thus, you knock the ground out from under the feet of the offender, because you react in a completely different way than he expected of you.

- Why do you wear black clothes all the time?

- You see, this is my peculiarity, a highlight.

- You are so strange ...

- It's just that I've already come to terms with my weirdness, besides, they allow me to stand out from the crowd.

Always remember that rudeness and insults are almost inevitable. Familiar or even strangers often prefer to splash out their negativity on others, so you should be prepared for any development of events.

Do not forget that you can get out of almost every unpleasant situation with your head held high, and you can repulse the aggressor through humor, calmness or psychological self-defense.

Hello, I am Nadezhda Plotnikova. Having successfully completed her studies at SUSU as a special psychologist, she devoted several years to working with children with developmental problems and consulting parents on raising children. I use the experience gained, including in the creation of articles of a psychological orientation. Of course, in no way do I pretend to be the ultimate truth, but I hope that my articles will help dear readers to deal with any difficulties.