Valya Isaeva is the most interesting thing in blogs. Valya Isaeva - the most interesting thing in Valya Isaeva’s blogs after actually

May 17th, 2015 , 07:22 pm

I saw a post on Kolobok about guest worker-pedophile Khabib Patakhonov (in connection with yesterday’s Chechen wedding). And I became terribly curious, what happened in the end to the youngest mother in Russia, who gave birth to a daughter at the age of 11 from an 18-year-old guy from Tajikistan?

You, too, probably remember that sensational story. A year or two later, there were all kinds of rumors about the family life of the young couple, mostly bad and unflattering for Khabib!

I decided to rummage through the Internet, where, like in Space, nothing is lost. And I found what I was looking for.
So, what do we have as a result today? A couple of very pretty young people, a successful marriage and already two children. And everything that leads to the birth of healthy and desirable children is GOOD. This is my opinion, and no one will dissuade me of this.

"MK" attended the 20th anniversary of "Kapotnin's Juliet", who gave birth at the age of 11

10 years have passed since the beginning of that loud story. It was just so many years ago that 3rd-grader Valya from Kapotnya first gave herself to a migrant worker from a nearby lavash shop. The pregnancy of 11-year-old Valya Isaeva became known to the public in May 2005 - and in the blink of an eye, the love story, which had been going on for almost a year, turned into a matter of downright national scale. What they were gossiping about back then: that a junior high school student was “planted” with her Tajik tenant by her own grandmother, and that 17-year-old Khabib Patakhonov from Dushanbe is not at all who he claims to be, he is much older and came to the capital using someone else’s documents. .. And the whole world judged and ordered what to do with them. Loud public speeches and bustle in official bodies were crowned by a show trial. After which, “Kapotnin’s Romeo and Juliet,” as they were then dubbed, were just as suddenly forgotten, without drawing any organizational conclusions: who is to blame? So what should I do?

Lolita from the industrial zone

The last time I talked with the heroes of this almost Shakespearean drama that unfolded in the 2nd quarter of Kapotnya was in 2008: then Valya Isaeva was 15, Khabib Patakhonov was 22, and their little daughter Amina was 3 years old. At that time, the young people lived separately - this was the court decision. Three-year-old Amina looked pretty and healthy, and the notorious “granny pimp” Antonina Aleksandrovna Zenkina babysat her, since the young mother went to the 7th grade. I remember Khabib himself because he looked much younger than his stated age. Perhaps it was because he was the same height as his teenage sweetheart or because he had a slight build, but this boy barely looked 22 years old. The future of the young international cell of society, not yet registered anywhere due to the minority of the mother of the family, seemed vague. But Valya and Khabib assured me that they love each other and their daughter. The grandmother was completely on the side of the young people and actively wanted “everyone to finally get away from them.” And so it soon happened.

Another 5 years passed, and I wanted to know: how is Kapotnin’s Lolita doing? Is Shakespeare's passion alive?

* * *

Valya Isaeva opens the door - in tight jeans, a white T-shirt, slender, but with all the feminine curves. Smiles, big brown eyes sparkle. I remember that last time this girl, despite her Russian name and surname, seemed to me like an oriental beauty.

The apartment on the 3rd floor of the Khrushchev “panel” without an elevator, although “three rubles”, is tiny. You can’t turn around in the hallway; you have to walk straight into the kitchenette. And there, right in the wall, is a recess with a built-in shower, without a door. Only one room is visible - there is an adult bed and a wooden children's bed - and one person can stand on the remaining space. The other two rooms are walk-through rooms. There the TV coos and the overweight, aged Antonina Aleksandrovna sits indifferently. She used to work at a local greengrocer, but is now retired. Valya invites me into the only isolated room:

- Please pass! Khabib will arrive now, he is still at work. Everything is fine with us, and September is generally a holiday month for us. On September 11 I turn 20, on September 13 Khabib turns 27. We are both Virgos. Of course, when I was 10 and Khabib was 17, everyone said: oh, horror! And now, in comparison with 60-year-old men who marry 20-year-old girls, it is clear that our age difference is quite adequate - only 7 years!

Valya speaks slowly, choosing the right words and expressive images. And this despite the fact that the girl is an orphan, she did not finish school, and her adoptive grandmother is a simple woman who has been in the vegetable garden all her life. But even then, in 2008, and even more so now, Valya impressed me not as a confused child, but as a small, but confident, fully formed woman. Both then and now, all her reasoning is presented in a very intelligent, cultural form, but the bottom line boils down to the main thought: “For my Khabib and for my family, I will tear anyone apart!”

On January 23, 2013, Valya and Khabib had a son, who was named Amir. Now he sleeps in the next room under the supervision of his great-grandmother. Fearing the evil eye, Amirchik’s young parents try not to show it to anyone, and only those closest to him know about his existence. But the elder Amina is happy to talk with the guest. She turned into a tall girl for her age with big eyes and also very correct speech.

- Valya, now Amina is 8 years old, what do you say if in 2 years she starts sleeping with a guy, like you did? — I can’t resist provocation.

- I'll kill her! — Valya answers emotionally. “Yes, she’s a smart girl herself, she won’t do anything stupid!” Although I don’t regret anything about myself,” Valya continues. - You know, it happens when Allah unites the hearts of a man and a woman, no matter how old they are. The Almighty simply knows that these two should be together all their lives and raise children. And then what difference does it make whether it happens earlier or later, since it’s fate? This is the kind of love we have with Khabib. Despite the fact that many people tried to separate us and spread rumors, we got married 3 years ago. His parents accepted me very well, I am a full member of the family.

— But Khabib’s parents live in Dushanbe. If the wedding was there, then you probably converted to Islam?

— We had a wedding in Moscow, on Lubyanka, it was arranged for Khabib by his FSB friends. But I didn’t have to accept Islam: I was always a Muslim - by birth. I have Azerbaijani blood on my mother’s side, we just didn’t advertise it.

— Were Khabib’s parents at the wedding?

— No, it’s expensive for them to come to Moscow. But this April we visited them in Dushanbe. We would have gone immediately after the wedding, but this was impossible - Khabib needs to get so many permits to travel outside of Moscow! As a result, we flew to Dushanbe without permission from any official authorities there. They call us the next day: “Congratulations, you are allowed to travel to Tajikistan!” And we laugh: “Thank you, of course, but we’re already there!”

“I liked it in Dushanbe,” the second-grader interjects very maturely. — My grandparents live in Zeravshan, this is the best area of ​​the city. Grandma doesn’t understand Russian well, when she watches TV, she asks everything again. And her grandfather scolds her for this: the village, he says, all the brothers-sons conquered Moscow, but you don’t even know Russian!

In fact, although they said that Khabib is Tajik, he is Uzbek. His family is from Uzbekistan, they just moved to Dushanbe at one time; they had some problems in their homeland. Khabib’s uncle and older brother moved to Moscow back in the 90s, although both ended up in prison. But they speak Russian well. But my husband’s mother still addressed me in her own way.

Judging by the situation in the apartment, it is clear that the young family is not in luxury. There is only a dried piece of poppy seed roll on the kitchen table for tea, but the hostess clearly keeps her face: “We don’t eat at night. We’ll feed Khabib dinner after work and that’s it!”

— How will you celebrate birthdays, Valyusha? — I carefully ask, because guests are unlikely to fit in their living space.

“I tell my husband: let’s go to a nightclub, I’m already allowed!” - Valya answers joyfully. — After all, I’ll be 20 already, I already drink wine. True, rarely, on holidays, I don’t really like it. And Khabib doesn’t drink alcohol at all.

- Valya, did you finish school?

- 9th grade and college is not far from here - I studied to be a manager. I worked as a cashier in our store in Kapotnya. But then my husband forbade it and said: Am I really not going to feed my family? True, now he has allowed me to work again. Amirchik will be one year old, and I will go. Otherwise, Khabib is very tired, he works late every day. But we have enough for everything, we even bought a car - a new Lada, but Khabib converted it into a sports car! He drives like that, you should see! I will also go to driving school soon, my husband promised.

—Where does Khabib work?

- Yes, here across the road from us - in a furniture warehouse, as a storekeeper.

Romeo as a labor migrant

- Well, how do you like my household? — the owner of the house smiles patronizingly. “I stole them from the hospital back then, in 2005!” Otherwise they wanted Valya to go to an orphanage, and Amina to a foster family! But, as you can see, everything is fine with us, a son was born...

- Congratulations! Have you received Russian citizenship, Khabib? — at the time of our previous meeting, Khabib only dreamed of becoming a citizen of Russia.

“No, he only has a residence permit,” Valya answers for her husband, “although we have already signed for 3 years.” There are a lot of papers to write, but we will definitely do everything.

- Valya said that you will tell about your wedding yourself...

— Our wedding was gorgeous! - the migrant worker recalls with pride. — On Bolshaya Lubyanka, in an Arabic restaurant. We had a limousine - a golden Hummer - and 1200 guests...

— Guys, excuse me for the indiscreet question, but where did you get the funds for such a magnificent ceremony?

- Firstly, I have friends in the FSB, they work there across the street, they often go to that restaurant and agreed with the owner that everything would be at a friendly price. Secondly, one TV channel really wanted to film our wedding. Well, we set a condition for them - they say, then help so that everything is beautiful and looks good on the screen. There was just a golden limousine from them.

— Khabib, how did you end up in Moscow?

— I first came here in 1999, I was 13 years old. My father and I came to see my uncle. My uncle was the first in our family to go to Moscow, but something didn’t work out and he ended up in prison. He served time in Astrakhan, but did not return to Dushanbe. And when my father began to get ready to go home, I told him: “Leave me with my uncle, I’ll live with him, go for a walk, and see the Kremlin!” At first I lived with my uncle, then I found a job and began renting a separate house. I had no problems at all: in the Dushanbe school we were taught Russian very well, not like now.

- Are you drawn to your homeland?

— My homeland is here, in Moscow. I go to Tajikistan only because I have my father, mother and relatives there. If they weren’t there, my feet wouldn’t be there! I don't feel comfortable there, I don't feel at home there. I’m already used to it here, but the situation there is kind of unpleasant...

Shakespeare in Kapotnin's style

I have to admit that some of the things that the young people told me today contradict what was stated five years ago. However, Valya Isaeva does not hide the fact that they had to deliberately keep silent about some points, so as not to drag themselves into additional persecution.

Even before Patakhonov’s trial, the then director of children’s affairs in Moscow, Alexey Golovan, threateningly demanded “to stop interfering in the life of a minor without the permission of her guardian.” The public outcry was not long in coming: a certain deputy Chuev was immediately found, who undertook to patronize the couple, which was rapidly gaining momentum in popularity. As a result, the Russian law on the seduction of minors was respected in court nominally: the then 20-year-old Tajik-citizen lover of minors got off with two years probation, with permission to work in the capital. All that was required of the defendant was to solemnly swear in the courtroom not to touch his Moscow “Juliet” again until it was permitted by law. Khabib assured the court that as soon as Valya turns 16 and she can obtain official permission from the guardianship authorities for a legal marriage, he will honestly marry her. And the commission for the affairs of minors and the protection of their rights of the Kapotnya municipality put an end to my report from 2008:

“Everything is fine in this family, finally leave them alone!” Valyusha studies well, communicates with peers and generally leads a lifestyle appropriate to her age. Antonina Aleksandrovna takes care of her granddaughter: Amina is a beautiful girl, developed, well-groomed. Khabib is working. He helps the Isaev family financially. He visits them strictly at set hours, signed by him in a special agreement. The child's father strictly complies with the court's decision, we have no complaints against him. Our representative regularly visits the Isaevs’ apartment.

Well, somewhere the valiant guardianship authorities were ripening to the root - indeed, he got married, it’s true, he helped... But only today Valya adds:

- Of course, all these years before the wedding he lived with my grandmother, but we hid him! Well, think for yourself, what kind of money is needed to help me with my child and rent an apartment in Moscow!

At the beginning of the story it was said that little Valya had only her grandmother among her relatives - and she was not her own, but her guardian. And, they say, this guardian named Antonina Aleksandrovna Zenkina, working as a saleswoman in a local vegetable store, made an acquaintance with a baker from a neighboring lavash shop named Khabib. A kind woman offered a hard-working Tajik guy shelter for a reasonable fee. And when the “result” of such a settlement became obvious, the granny just threw up her hands: they say, who could have thought that they would do such a thing? Like, both are just children: Valya is 11, and the boy is only 14. And when official questions rained down on the grandmother, she not only underestimated the age of 17-year-old Patakhonov, but also tried in every possible way to cover her tracks and cover up the real Khabib, presenting him as a mythical resident Astrakhan named Bakhtier.

- How did it really happen? - I ask Valya.

“Very simple,” Valya smiles. - Now there’s nothing to hide. Antonina Aleksandrovna is my stepfather’s mother, his last name is Isaev. He lived with my mother in this very apartment. But they were not scheduled: he was either drinking or sitting, and she was walking. And then one day my mother went to St. Petersburg, and then, a couple of months later, she called and said: I’ll come back because I got pregnant. Whether it’s from you or not, I don’t know. The stepfather nevertheless demanded that she return and give birth in Moscow, promising that he would register the child in his name. And my grandmother said that she would raise and educate me. And so it happened. I have never seen my mother. She gave birth to me and disappeared again. No one knows who my real father is. My stepfather died when I was 8 years old and he was 32. I hardly remember him. And my grandmother, in order not to send me to an orphanage, formalized guardianship.

— By the way, about the fact that grandma rented out an apartment to Khabib, it’s all a lie! - Valya declares. “My grandmother just didn’t want to set me up then.” In fact, I met Khabib myself. And she brought him to visit her, in this very room. I liked him, I fell in love!

- But you were in 2nd grade then!

- So what, in 2nd grade this is not a person, or what? At first I fell in love with his older brother Maxim, but then he went to prison. It was in the store where grandma worked at the time, and I ran to see her after school. Well, first Maxim kept sighing and walking around me, then Khabib... I immediately thought about Khabib: how handsome!

— What are your plans for the near future, guys?

- Yes, they gave us maternity capital for Amirchik - 409 thousand. We want to buy a house with a plot, we are just choosing it now. So if anyone has any interesting suggestions, please let us know via MK.

“It’s a bit cramped for us here,” adds Valya. - But we still want a third child. Another girl...

The heroes of the new episode of the program “Actually” are Valentina Isaeva and Khabib Patakhonov. About six months ago the couple broke up. A young woman who gave birth at the age of 11 accused her husband of raising his hand against her. She went to her lover Viktor Popov. Valya claimed that she met with him in secret from Khabib for a long time.

However, in Dmitry Shepelev’s program, Isaeva decided to ask Patakhonov for forgiveness. He came to the studio with a statement: the guy was ready to divorce his young woman.

“I won’t give him any divorce. Let him not even hope for it,” Valentina responded.

Isaeva decided to prove that she had never cheated on her husband. “I realized all my mistakes, that I did the wrong thing, we have children, they need a father,” the woman said. Khabib is not ready to forgive her; he remembers how he suffered when his wife left.

Previously, Valentina was going to leave Moscow with Popov and go to Kabardino-Balkaria. But after some time, Isaeva broke up with her chosen one, returned home, and then decided to go to work.

Experts believe that Patakhonov and Isaeva are lying in the studio. According to Valentina, Khabib helps her with the children, and also stopped raising his hand to her. Her husband confirmed that he plans to marry another girl. Experts have found out: Patakhonov is telling the truth, but he wants to commit this act to spite her.

Valentina continues to insist that Khabib cheated on his wife. Last time his betrayal was proven.

After filming the talk show “Let Them Talk,” where Valentina introduced Victor to the children, she disappeared. A guy met a girl on the Internet. A few weeks later they met in real life. According to him, the young woman claimed that she was going through a divorce. Popov was ready to marry her.

“We met in different places, in hotels,” says Vali’s former lover.

Isaeva sought protection from Victor, but in fact did not intend to get married. Experts found out that the young man was lying when answering questions about whether he was going to marry Valya. In addition, Popov’s parents were initially against his relationship with the mother of two children. It also turned out that Victor and Valentina had an intimate relationship.

Experts called on Isaeva and Patakhomov to make peace for the sake of the children. “I can’t forgive this and I don’t want to live with this girl anymore,” Khabib noted.

The man is getting married. Patakhomov’s bride appeared in the studio. He announced his search for a new girl after filming the last program. Khabib asked his mother to find him a chosen one, a “home” girl. Her name is Zarina. They have never met in person. Isaeva claims that Khabib consulted with her about how he would live with his chosen one.

Zarina started making trouble as soon as she appeared in the studio. She started saying that Habib is her Islamic husband. Valya started screaming at both her husband and his bride.

“First, explain to your children that you have another wife,” says Isaeva.

Unable to control her emotions, Valentina attacked Zarina with her fists and grabbed her hair. The talk show staff began to separate the women. Isaeva injured her opponent’s nose.

Experts decided that Valya is still fighting for her husband. However, she still has not forgiven Habib for the harm her husband caused her. Expert Roman Ustyuzhanin also asked a question about Isaeva’s infidelities. It turned out that she had other men - besides Khabib and Victor.

“I will make sure that everything changes,” Isaeva answered the pleas of those present in the studio.

The Muscovite became popular in 2005, when she gave birth to a child at the age of 11. Valya Isaeva married Khabib Patakhonov, but many difficulties awaited them ahead. It turned out that Valya...

The Muscovite became popular in 2005, when she gave birth to a child at the age of 11. Valya Isaeva married Khabib Patakhonov, but many difficulties awaited them ahead. It turned out that Valya and Khabib are together again, and the information about Isaeva’s lover is just an invention of the talk show organizers.

the whole country. Valentina was an orphan; the girl was raised by her grandmother. Valya's life changed dramatically when she met a native of Tajikistan, Habib Patakhonov. At that time the guy was 19 years old. The couple began a relationship, as a result of which Valya became pregnant. Soon the whole country learned about her situation and began to call the unusual couple “Romeo and Juliet” behind their backs.

At first, some assured that Khabib should go to jail for having sex with a minor, while others prayed to give the future parents a chance to build a family. As a result, Valya and Khabib built a family, but failed to save it. More recently, the couple publicly sorted out their relationship and attended various talk shows. Patakhonov even managed to get married a second time, but soon filed for divorce. Isaeva was also not single for long; she had a young man who, as it turned out later, turned out to be a fake.
“We had nothing at all with him. It was a show. I was forced to say so. This “lover” was found by television crews. The guy is our neighbor. The TV people made up this story, and we had to play it. They introduced him as my lover, although this guy has a wife and child. The TV people first signed an agreement with us, but didn’t talk about the script until the last minute. I didn't know they would come up with this. And when I found out, I couldn’t refuse, because then I would have to pay a penalty - 500 thousand rubles,” admitted Isaeva.

Now Valya and Khabib are together, they will soon have a third child. “Khabib and I made peace. We are fine! We decided to save the family for the sake of the children. Moreover, we are expecting our third child. I’m five months pregnant,” said Isaeva. Moreover, she admitted that she did not have love interests, which the public had recently attributed to her.

Valya forgave her husband for many things, even the fact that he once raised his hand against her. Isaeva is not afraid to talk about this openly. “He beat me back in 2015. I thought I wouldn't forgive you. But I forgave, because Khabib promised to control himself and would not allow any more assault,” noted the young mother. By the way, the couple’s eldest daughter Amina is 13 years old. At this age, Valya was already a mother with two years of experience. Now she is doing everything to prevent the heiress from repeating her mistakes.

“We tell her everything openly and ask her not to repeat our mistakes. Khabib tells her: “When you study, finish school, I’ll find you a groom. If you don’t want to get married, you will continue to study.” The teachers, of course, looked closely at her, maybe they were afraid at first, as if of something... But she is modest, a home child. Sometimes he plays with his brother, sometimes he teaches English, sometimes he helps with the housework. She is completely busy with her studies and plans to go to college. He doesn’t even sit on social networks, doesn’t correspond,” Valya continued.

Amina is already making plans for the future. The girl dreams of finishing school and flying to Tajikistan. Amina’s parents approve of her choice and are themselves considering moving from the capital, since, in their opinion, it is difficult to live here.